Dance, From Beginning to End
Sermon
preached By Rev. Ginger Gaines-Cirelli -
December 19, 2010
Matthew 1:18-25
The last
several weeks, we have been reflecting together on this experience we
share of coming together in public worship of God. The season of Advent
is a beautiful time to engage in these reflections, for the season
reminds us that we are living in the “in-between” time of Christ’s first
coming as a baby in Bethlehem and Christ’s second coming to bring to
fulfillment God’s vision of unity, peace, and loving justice. Advent
tells both the beginning of the particular Christian story and
the end of the story that we anticipate with hope and joy. The story
continues, in this between time and you and I are primary actors in that
unfolding drama. Our shared worship is the place that we actively wait
and watch for Christ’s coming again; it is the context within which we
prepare for that coming; it is the community within which we are guided
and formed into Christ-shaped relationships with God and with one
another. As we gather in worship, we recount the ongoing story through
the patterned rhythm of our worship, through the poetry of the creeds;
we claim our place in the story through participation in word and
gesture. All of what we do in this place is offered to God, the
“participatory audience,” if you will, in the theater that is Christian
community at worship. This story, our story, has not been edited
in order to get a “G” rating—the drama is full of all the violence,
greed, hatred, confusion, and fear that continue to plague the human
community.
We see that
obliquely in Matthew’s account of the birth of Jesus we heard today.
The laws of the day would have called for Mary to be publicly humiliated
and disgraced, as she was found to be pregnant before she and Joseph
were married. And Matthew’s account of what happened following Jesus’
birth includes the holy family fleeing for their lives, and Herod, in
his fear and hatred, killing all the male children under two years old
in the vicinity of Bethlehem. (Mt. 2:13-16) We know, well enough, that
violence, distrust, confusion, greed, and fear are alive and well in the
world—and in our own lives. That, in large part, is the tragic conflict
in our story and is at the heart of why it was necessary for God to risk
so much in coming to dwell with us in Jesus. Jesus, the prince of
peace, comes to breathe peace into our lives and into the world, to heal
the world of fear and division, to break down the barriers that would
have us “dismiss” anyone—quietly or publicly. Jesus comes to reconcile
us to God, to one another, and to our own selves.
When we gather
in worship, we gather as a people of peace, as followers of the Prince
of Peace. This doesn’t mean that we all get along or that when we cross
the threshold of the sanctuary all of the divisions, greed, fear, and
hatred of the world are magically erased. Rather, our gathering to
rehearse our faith is a choice we make, an impulse driven by the Holy
Spirit of love to come together in all our difference—differences of
culture, experience, theology, political leanings, race, sexual
orientation—all the things that threaten to divide us and to cause
violence. In all our difference and just as we are, we come together
as God’s beloved children, to practice how to live in peace, to learn
how to receive the peace that Christ offers us—that peace that is beyond
human understanding—and we learn how to share that peace with others. I
am reminded of the famous account of the “Christmas Truce of 1914” when
German and British soldiers “refused to go on fighting, met in no-man’s
land to sing songs together, to exchange presents and hugs, and [to
show] each other pictures of those whom they loved.”[i]
In the midst of some of the most brutal fighting of the last century,
the barriers of division were broken down—for all too brief a moment—by
the Holy Spirit of love in Christ and a common humanity was remembered
and cherished. This is what we do every time we gather for worship.
I shared with
you in the last Circuit Rider newsletter that one of my passions
is for “practical theology.” What this means is that I am interested in
the ways that what we say about God impacts who we are, how we
understand ourselves, and what we do in our lives and in our
relationships. The primary language that Christians use for God is
Trinity—God, in three Persons: Father, Son, Holy Spirit, the Persons
who create, redeem, and sustain. Our understanding of God is that God
IS this community of distinct persons, God IS a unity in diversity, God
IS a community of peace, mutuality, and self-giving love. The eastern
church describes the Triune mystery of God in the Greek, Perichoresis,
or “Divine Dance.” Imagine for a moment the three different persons of
God dancing together in harmony, acting and reacting in an eternal
performance of perfect love.
Perhaps you
can begin to imagine how this understanding of God guides our own
understanding of whom we are and how we are created to be in
relationship. If it is true that the human creatures are made in the
image of God, then the fulfillment of our lives, the perfection of
becoming who we really are, is found in our reflection of and
participation in the Divine Dance. (this gives whole new
meaning to the phrase “Dancing with the Stars!”) We are created to
share mutually respectful, peaceful relationship with others who are
different, who have different skills and arts and perceptions and
histories. The vision is not for all of us to be the same, but rather
for us to participate in a community that recognizes our real
differences and, instead of being fearful, dismissive, prejudiced,
and hateful in the face of those differences, to be open to one another,
to receive and learn from one another, and, at our best to love one
another. At the very least, we are called, deep in our created nature,
not to do violence upon one another. The Divine Dance is a dance of
peace in the midst of all that would divide us and do harm. Jesus, the
Lord of the Dance, invites us to join in, showing us what that dance
looks like when it comes into the world. Jesus, Lord of the Dance,
Prince of Peace, speaks peace, embodies peace, breathes peace, IS our
peace.
When we offer
Christ’s peace to one another in the midst of worship, we acknowledge
and accept the gift of Christ’s peace, we are “accepting the basis on
which we are gathered together…an acceptance of the gift of Christ’s
indestructible peace. We recognize that we are here in church not
because we are friends or because we enjoy the chummy atmosphere, or
because we have the same theological opinions, but because we are one in
Christ’s peace…What matters is not that we feel united, but
that peace is given.”[ii]
What is ironic is that this practice of sharing Christ’s peace in
worship makes some folks feel uncomfortable—or, one could argue, less
peaceful. However, at least part of the reason we do it is to proclaim
Christ’s peace even in the midst of our own discomfort with ourselves,
with others, and with the world as it is. Our “passing the peace” is
not an orchestrated “say howdy to your neighbor”—which as some have
quite rightly pointed out can feel forced and fake. Authentic greetings
and offerings of holy hospitality are best done before and after
worship. Rather, the offering of peace within worship is a way that we
embody and participate in the Divine Dance of God, rehearsing our faith
in the One who has defeated division—betrayal, lies, fear,
incomprehension, violence, and even death. When we say, “peace be with
you,” we claim our faith in Jesus, the embodied love of God who has
broken through every destructive barrier, who comes into the world in
vulnerability and moves into the places where we feel vulnerable and
fearful as through locked doors to breathe peace into flesh again.
“In the Middle
Ages the kiss of peace was a solemn moment of reconciliation in which
social conflicts were resolved. The community was restored to charity
before Communion could be received.”[iii]
Other practices place the sharing of peace at the offertory, following
the command of Jesus found in Matthew 5:23: “If you are offering your
gift on the altar, and there remember that your brother has something
against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go and be
reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” When
we celebrate the sacrament of Holy Communion, we share the peace
following our confession and reconciliation with God—a sign of our
affirmation of the peace and unity we receive in Christ and of our
intention to live in peace with God and with one another. On Sundays
that we don’t share in the Lord’s Supper, we offer the peace of Christ
to one another as a response to the Word of God—again as an affirmation
and rehearsal of our intention to dance the Divine Dance of peace with
one another and with all as we are sent out into the world.
Sometimes, we
may feel like we need to be alone—even in the midst of the worshipping
congregation—to allow the Dance to swirl around us, to have the words
spoken, the songs sung, the peace passed and to just be in the
midst of it all, sometimes participating and sometimes not. That speaks
to our difference and to our unfolding awareness of self and of our
needs and our place in God’s story. The invitation in worship is always
to come as you are and to share as you are able and to be aware of what
comes up for you in your body, mind, and spirit as the drama plays out.
Our “eternally performing God”[iv]
is always at work and the Holy Spirit is always moving, and the Lord of
the Dance is always inviting you to follow, “wherever you may be.”
(“Lord of the Dance,” UMH #261) Wherever you may be, whoever you
are, just as you are. That is where the Christ wants to be born again,
in your life, and in our shared life. For us, just as we are today, in
all our messiness and brokenness and difference, Jesus was born to
destroy the barriers that threaten to divide us and to bring peace. And
that perfect love in flesh is our hope, our joy, our peace. May the
dear Christ be born in us this Christmas and everyday between
Christmases that we may truly be Dancers after the likeness of God,
embodiments of Christ’s peace in a world that sorely needs it.
